Don’t judge………Judgement takes you out of the circle of kindness and places you and your ego on the road to sharing your poison. Judgement says you are better, you know better and you can do better…..it doesn’t hold any humility, rather it presents as arrogance. When judgement is part of your daily experience; the reality is, even if no one is saying so…….you are difficult to be around, nothing is ever good enough, and you are micro managing everyone in your sphere of influence.
Leadership is about encouraging the leader in each of us, it is about bringing out the best in others, and it is about leading without judging and labeling Acts of kindness, however small; a smile, a compliment, a helping hand, plant seeds of hope, love and beauty in an amazing garden you will one day call home. It takes a humble person to accept full responsibility for their actions, it takes just a little more humility and will to bring change to their life and to give goodness.
Eckhart Tolle said “The quicker you are in attaching verbal or mental labels to things, people, or situations, the more shallow and lifeless your reality becomes, and the more deadened you become to reality, and the miracle of life that continuously unfolds within and around you.”