Have an excellent day! Happy Monday! Thank you for the “Thought” suggestions – a number of you asked for “thoughts” on relationships that need healing.
Always do your best…….acknowledge and manage your feelings because if you hold onto negative feelings then you will project them onto others. We forgive ourselves when we stumble, thankful that we haven’t fallen on our face, but when we stumble in our choices, our career, or our relationships we seem to freeze, convinced that we are frozen in that moment. The fact is life’s challenges may leave you shaken but they won’t leave you broken. While life might knock us down every now and then, we have the capacity to get back up and begin anew. We have to own our feelings because if we don’t they will own us. We cannot heal our relationships by being hard, rigid, unable to bend or give……..because all of those things will show up in our bodies. We cannot communicate with “should” because anytime we use the word should we are judging. The question to ask when you reach an impasse with someone is …..is holding your ground, and defending your position, making you feel better? Wayne Dyer said “Those who behave in ways that you dislike are sending out their disharmony toward you because that’s all they have to give away. Hating them is akin to hating moss for growing on the tree.”
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